Digging Deeper: Teach Us to Pray
“When you pray, don’t be like the hypocrites who love to pray publicly on street corners and in the synagogues where everyone can see them. I tell you the truth, that is all the reward they will ever get. But when you pray, go away by yourself, shut the door behind you, and pray to your Father in private. Then your Father, who sees everything, will reward you.”
Matthew 6:5-6 (NLT)
TEACH US TO PRAY
In the late 19th century, inventor Thomas Edison was known for his relentless focus, often working for days in his private laboratory without leaving. When visitors or reporters wanted to see him, they had to go through a closed door, cutting out the noise and distractions of the outside world. Edison knew that true invention and deep focus require a controlled environment, away from the applause and opinions of onlookers.
Jesus prescribed a very similar approach when it came to our communication with God. In Matthew 6:5–6, Jesus warns against the performative prayers of the hypocrites who use religion as a stage for public applause. Instead, He invites us behind a closed door into a private space with our Father.
Prayer is not meant to be a performance to impress people but an intimate conversation with the One who knows us best. When we step away from the noise and distractions of daily life to seek God in secret, we align our hearts with the posture of a true child coming to a loving parent. This private devotion breaks through our insecurities and teaches us that prayer is fundamentally about connection, not showmanship.
Reflection Questions
● What are the primary distractions that keep you from finding a quiet, private space to pray?
● How does viewing prayer as an intimate conversation rather than a public performance change your approach to God?
Suggested Prayer
Father, strip away any desire for human applause when I come to You. Teach me how to shut the door on distractions and meet with You in secret, resting in Your loving presence. Amen.
Dr. Larry Grays is passionate about helping churches grow and reaching people in fresh, creative ways. He launched a church in a Midtown Atlanta movie theater and later served as an Urban Church Planting Strategist with the North American Mission Board. Today, he speaks, writes, and coaches pastors and leaders. Larry has degrees from UCF, Southeastern Seminary, and Southern Seminary—but more importantly, he loves Jesus, good coffee, and seeing the next generation step into their calling. He and his wife Lori love raising their incredible kids and love doing life and ministry together.