It was the fall of 2015 in Conway, South Carolina. Head baseball coach Gary Gilmore stood near the dugout. The stadium was nearly empty; however, Coach Gilmore could still hear it.
The noise.
The expectations.
The pressure.
For years, it had followed him.
• Win the CWS.
• Build a national program.
• Make history.
• Do more. Be more. Prove it again.
Every season became a new test. Every game carried weight. Every decision felt like it had something riding on it.
Players saw it, and coaches felt it. Coach Gilmore was leading and coaching by “pressure,” not “priority.”
Then, one fall afternoon in 2015, I slipped Coach Gilmore a book called Lead for God’s Sake and asked him to read it. He did, and it transformed his focus and impacted the 2016 season.
Coach Gilmore began living, leading, and coaching by “priority,” not “pressure.”
The pressure to win hadn’t disappeared; however, it no longer dominated and controlled his life.
Priority did. Loving God, loving people, and loving his players.
As the 2016 season went on, fans would still talk about wins, records, and the potential for a CWS championship run.
However, the players—those who sat in the dugout, rode the bus, heard the words, and felt the shift—carried something deeper within them.
How?
Because Coach Gilmore had learned something that changed everything:
“Pressure” builds performance, but “priority” builds people.
And at the end of that magical 2016 season, Coach Gilmore was a Division I College World Series champion.
All because he chose to live, coach, and manage his life under “priority,” not “pressure.”
In a similar way, there are common cultural forces that seek to shape our choices and identity to live under “pressure.”
• Performance and success
• Appearance and image
• Position and power
• Popularity and approval
• Possessions and materialism
• Independence and self-reliance
In contrast, Scripture consistently redirects our focus toward living our lives under “priority.”
• Relationship with God
• Character, conduct, and integrity
• Love for others
• Eternal perspective and impact
• Dependence on God
Listen closely: The world says, “Prove yourself, impress others, and get more.” That is managing life under “pressure.”
God says, “Know me, love others, and trust me.” That is managing life under “priority.”
Which way are you living your life?
Pressure or priority?
Just ask Coach Gilmore.