Digging Deeper: Your Pain Has Purpose

Do you ever wonder if Jesus wanted to change His story—to remove the cross from His life, to spare Himself?
How often do we wish we could change our own stories?

Imagine if there hadn’t been another chapter after those three days.
Imagine if the darkest day the world has ever seen hadn’t flipped the script and changed everything.
But it did. God used His pain for a much greater purpose—and there’s purpose in your pain too.

In my years of teaching, raising a family, and being active in our community, I’ve learned that pain has a way of making us more empathetic. When we walk through difficult seasons, we gain the ability to comfort others who are suffering in the same way. Often, it’s through our own pain that we learn how to truly love and support others.

Just as Jesus understood our pain and suffered for us, we can use our pain to point others toward the hope and healing that comes through Christ.

I’ve come to realize that God doesn’t waste our pain. He uses it to refine us, to help us grow, and to shape us into the parents, friends, and leaders He’s called us to be. The struggles we face today may not make sense right now, but they are part of the beautiful tapestry God is weaving in our lives. That pain is shaping you, strengthening you, and drawing you closer to the One who understands pain better than anyone.

Trust that God is using every moment—even the painful ones—for your good and His glory.

I pray that as you walk through this day, you are reminded that you are not alone in any season of pain or struggle. You may feel overwhelmed by the challenges you face, but know that He is using these moments to grow you and draw you closer to Him.

Trust that your pain has purpose, and that He is working in and through you, even when you can’t see it.

Lord, give us the strength to endure, the wisdom to learn from these struggles, and the grace to share Your love with others who are hurting. Thank You for never wasting our pain. Amen.