Digging Deeper: Living a Patient Life
13 But according to his promise we are waiting for new heavens and a new earth in which righteousness dwells. 14 Therefore, beloved, since you are waiting for these, be diligent to be found by him without spot or blemish, and at peace. 15 And count the patience of our Lord as salvation.
2 Peter 3:13-15a (ESV)
LIVING A PATIENT LIFE
Waiting patiently, especially during hard times, is not easy. One of my favorite lines from a movie is from the film A League of Their Own. Tom Hanks plays a crusty old baseball manager assigned to coach a women’s baseball team during WWII. When one of the players complains about things being too difficult, he replies, “It’s supposed to be hard. If it were easy, everyone would do it.” I think that should be our attitude when facing the valleys in our lives.
Let me explain. We all know people who have suffered some sort of hardship. If we know that they are not a Christian, we often wonder how they survive day-to-day without that assurance of hope that only faith in Jesus can provide. Suffering can bring even the strongest of us to our knees. I know that when I face life’s trials, I pray not only for an end to the suffering, but in the same breath, I pray for God’s will to be done. I ask God to give me the strength to be patient and wait on His timing. That’s where the movie quote comes in –it is hard without God, and if it were easy, we would not need God.
Waiting patiently has its rewards as well. We will not act impetuously as Sarai did, and therefore avoid the “rest of the story.” Jesus, in his Parable of the Soils, says, “As for that in the good soil, they are those who, hearing the word, hold it fast in an honest and good heart, and bear fruit with patience” (Lk 8:15). Patient people bear fruit, and just like fruit on the vine, it takes time and patience. The writer of Hebrews reminds us, “So do not throw away this confident trust in the Lord. Remember the great reward it brings you! Patient endurance is what you need now, so that you will continue to do God’s will. Then you will receive all that he has promised” (Heb 10:35-36, NLT).
One final benefit of patience –you present a great model to those around you, and you more closely resemble the image of Christ. Paul (formerly Saul) was a persecutor of the early Christians. Jesus showed perfect patience with him, and when the time was right, he literally blinded him, so that once the scales fell away, the truth was revealed in his heart. Paul remembered, and noted, “But I received mercy for this reason, that in me, as the foremost, Jesus Christ might display his perfect patience as an example to those who were to believe in him for eternal life” (1 Tim 2:16).
Paul became the model of the patience of Jesus to all whom he encountered. I pray that we as fellow believers can be that same reflection of Jesus when we patiently wait for God’s plan to be revealed. Who knows? Your example of patient perseverance may lead someone to ask you, “How can you be so patient in your suffering?” Just be ready to give the reason for your patient hope (1 Pet 3:15)!
Phil Meade is a father of three, and grandfather of five. He has a Masters in Theological Studies from Liberty University, and lives in Acworth. He has led various small groups throughout his more than 20 years attending NorthStar Church. He recently retired after 33 years as a pilot for Delta Airlines.