Digging Deeper – Hope Deferred Makes the Heart Sick
9 “Where is Sarah, your wife?” the visitors asked. “She’s inside the tent,” Abraham replied. 10 Then one of them said, “I will return to you about this time next year, and your wife, Sarah, will have a son!” Sarah was listening to this conversation from the tent. 11 Abraham and Sarah were both very old by this time, and Sarah was long past the age of having children.
Genesis 18:9-11 (NLT)
HOPE DEFERRED MAKES THE HEART SICK
When Isaac is born Abraham is 100 and Sarah is 90 years old. When we pick up with Abraham sitting in his tent in Genesis 18, he is 99 years old. Twenty-four years prior to this moment he had received a promise that God would “make of [him] a great nation” (12:2) and that his “offspring” (12:4) would inherit the land of Canaan. Twenty-four years – not a short passage of time. After ten years he had perhaps grown incredulous, for in Chapter 15 he questions God, saying, “O Lord GOD, what will you give me, for I continue childless…” (15:2). His use of the phrase “I continue” (literally “go” or “walk”) indicates his growing discomfort at the passage of ten years of delayed expectation. On that occasion, however, the Lord, full of tender-hearted mercy, not only reassures Abraham, but makes a covenant with him. This is when the famous statement is made of the patriarch, “And he believed the LORD, and he counted it to him as righteousness” (15:6). Yet nine more years pass until we arrive at this moment in Genesis 18 when the Lord visits Abraham to reassure him yet again, this time with a specificity that the time is at hand. Twenty-five years in total would elapse between God’s promise and the delivery of Isaac.
Proverbs 13:12 says, “Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a desire fulfilled is a tree of life.” Abraham must have known how this felt. After all, he and Sarah tried to force the promise by using her maidservant Hagar as a surrogate and welcoming a son in Ishmael. But God’s timeline is not ours, and his promises can be trusted for the duration of their fulfillment.
How long have you waited on God with a petition? A week? Six months? A year? A decade? Are you still waiting? Waiting is not uncommon for the people of God in the Scriptures. In fact, waiting on the Lord is expressed as a great virtue: “The Lord is good to those who wait for Him” (Lam 3:25) and “those who wait upon the LORD will renew their strength” (Isa 40:31). It is in the waiting that God is able to do a great work in our hearts. Wherever you are in the waiting, know that “no word from God will ever fail” (Luke 1:37). For this reason, let hope be a present reality instead of a future deferment, trusting that God will accomplish what he set out to do.
Ryan Hoffer serves as NextGen Production Director at NorthStar. He holds an M.Div in Church History and enjoys playing the harp. He and his wife, Tiffany, live in Acworth and have three children.