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Digging Deeper – Sacrificing for Others

Steve Roach on May 3, 2024

He (Jesus) humbled himself …and died a criminal’s death on a cross.

Philippians 2:8 (NLT)

SACRIFICING FOR OTHERS

A young woman was arrested for breaking the law. She knew she’d been caught red-handed and she couldn’t deny her guilt. Later, she stood in front of the judge’s bench and admitted what she had done. The man wearing the robe was a kind man, but he was also a just judge, and knew he couldn’t let her off the hook. She had broken the law. So he gave her the penalty prescribed by the law, which meant the girl was required to pay a steep fine – one that she couldn’t afford – or else end up in jail.

But, then the man did an amazing thing. He stood up, took off his judge’s robe, walked around to the front of the bench where the girl was standing, pulled out his wallet, and lovingly looked in her eyes as he handed her all the money she needed to pay her fine.

Why did he do this? Because the woman was his own daughter! Being a good judge, he had to honor the law and impose the penalty. But being a loving father, he was willing to leave His seat as judge and come to her side, to pay the price on her behalf. Jesus humbled Himself by leaving Heaven and coming by our side to pay the penalty for our sins that we couldn’t pay.

Are you willing to humbly give up your position, pride, or possessions to help others?

Steve Roach serves as the Pastor of Spiritual Maturity at NorthStar Church. He and his wife, Amy, live in Acworth and have three girls, Olivia, Sydney, and Hayley and one son, Colton. He enjoys watching sports and spending time with his family.

Digging Deeper – Obeying God

Steve Roach on May 2, 2024

He (Jesus) humbled himself in obedience to God…

Philippians 2:8 (NLT)

OBEYING GOD

When Christian Herter was governor of Massachusetts, he ran hard for a second term in office. One day, after a busy morning chasing votes (and no lunch), he arrived at a church barbecue. It was late afternoon, and Herter was famished. As Herter moved down the serving line, he held out his plate to the woman serving chicken. She put a piece on his plate and turned to the next person in line.

“Excuse me,” Governor Herter said, “do you mind if I have another piece of chicken?”

“Sorry,” the woman told him. “I’m supposed to give one piece of chicken to each person.”

“But I’m starved,” the governor said.

“Sorry,” the woman said again. “Only one to a customer.”

Governor Herter was a modest and unassuming man, but he decided that he would throw a little weight around this time. “Do you know who I am?” he said. “I am the governor of this state.”

“Do you know who I am?” the woman said. “I’m the lady in charge of the chicken. Move along, mister.”

Obeying God when we want our way requires humility. In the Garden of Gethsemane, Jesus searched for another way to accomplish our redemption than Him going on the cross. But, after anguish and prayer, in humility, He obeyed God and went to the cross to secure our salvation.

In what area of your life do you need to humble yourself and obey God today?

Digging Deeper – Refusing Privileges

Steve Roach on May 1, 2024

Though he was God, he did not think of equality with God as something to cling to. 7 Instead, he gave up his divine privileges; he took the humble position of a slave and was born as a human being. When he appeared in human form…

Philippians 2:6-7 (NLT)

REFUSING PRIVILEGES

Bible commentator and theologian Warren Wiersbe explains that Jesus did not consider His equality with God as “something selfishly to be held on to.” Jesus did not think of Himself; He thought of others. His outlook (or attitude) was that of unselfish concern for others. This is “the mind of Christ,” an attitude that says, “I cannot keep my privileges for myself, I must use them for others; and to do this, I will gladly lay them aside and pay whatever price is necessary.”

A reporter was interviewing a successful job counselor who had placed hundreds of workers in their vocations quite happily. When asked the secret of his success, the man replied, “If you want to find out what a worker is really like, don’t give him responsibilities—give him privileges. Most people can handle responsibilities if you pay them enough, but it takes a real leader to handle privileges. A leader will use his privileges to help others and build the organization; a lesser man will use privileges to promote himself.”

Jesus used His heavenly privileges for the sake of others—for our sake. Are you willing to humbly lay down your privileges, rights, and comfort for the sake of others? That is the attitude that Jesus had. That is the attitude that He wants His followers to have.

Digging Deeper – Helping Others Win

Steve Roach on April 30, 2024

Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too.

Philippians 2:4 (NLT)

HELPING OTHERS WIN

On December 2, 2012, Spanish athlete Iván Fernández Anaya was competing in a cross-country race in Burlada, Navarre. He was running second, some distance behind race leader, Abel Mutai – bronze medalist in the 3,000-meter steeplechase at the London Olympics. As they entered the finishing straight, he saw the Kenyan runner – the certain winner of the race – mistakenly pull up about 10 meters before the finish, thinking he had already crossed the line. Fernández Anaya quickly caught up with him, but instead of exploiting Mutai’s mistake to speed past and claim an unlikely victory, he stayed behind and, using gestures, guided the Kenyan to the line and let him cross first.

“I didn’t deserve to win it,” says 24-year-old Fernández Anaya. “I did what I had to do. He was the rightful winner. He created a gap that I couldn’t have closed if he hadn’t made a mistake. As soon as I saw he was stopping, I knew I wasn’t going to pass him.”

This is a great picture of what it looks like to look out for the interests of others! Humility is resisting the urge to always finish first. Rather, it is helping others win their race even when they make mistakes. Who can you help win their race today?

Digging Deeper – Lifting Others Up

Steve Roach on April 29, 2024

Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves.

Philippians 2:3 (NLT)

LIFTING OTHERS UP

What is humility? Is humility thinking less of ourselves than we actually are? Is it thinking that we are worthless, invaluable, and untalented? Not at all. The well-known preacher and theologian Jonathan Edwards observed,

“True humility is not putting ourselves down but rather lifting up others. If we concentrate on lifting up others, putting down ourselves will take care of itself. As we go through life exalting Christ and others, then genuine humility will be inevitable.”

You may want to read that quote again and let it soak into your heart. True humility is seeking to honor others and to make much of them. To maintain humility, instead of saying, “Woe is me,” make a habit of lifting others up. Jesus is the best example of humility there ever was. Jesus demonstrated humility, not by wrongly assessing His worth, but rather by thinking of our needs more than His own. In humility, will you seek to serve the needs of others? Who can you lift up today?

Digging Deeper – Extra

Steve Roach on February 9, 2024

The next day he handed the innkeeper two silver coins, telling him, ‘Take care of this man. If his bill runs higher than this, I’ll pay you the next time I’m here.’

Luke 10:35 (NLT)

Extra

When the Samaritan left the next morning, he took out two denarii and gave them to the innkeeper, and said, “Take care of him.” Depending on the quality of the inn, that amount would have paid for the injured man’s room and board for anywhere from three weeks to two months. This was another example of the Samaritan’s generous, compassionate love. But he still was not finished. He promised the innkeeper, “Whatever more you spend, when I return, I will repay you.” In effect, he gave him a blank check. His generosity knew no bounds.

When I think about what this Samaritan did (and didn’t have to do), my mind goes to Jesus’ words in Matthew 5:41. Jesus said, “If a soldier demands that you carry his gear for a mile, carry it two miles.” Roman law gave a soldier the right to force a civilian to carry his pack for a Roman mile, which was slightly shorter than our modern mile. The law, designed to relieve the soldier, not only caused great inconvenience to civilians but was made even more despicable by the fact that the oppressed were made to carry the equipment and weapons of their oppressors.

By helping the wounded man that day, the Samaritan would have done more than the two religious temple workers did (which was nothing). But love called for more. He chose to pay for weeks and even months of care for the wounded man. He arranged to return later, check on him, and pick up the tab for all expenses incurred. Love doesn’t do the minimum. Love goes the extra mile and does what we would want others to do for us. How far are you willing to go to love your neighbor?

Digging Deeper – Expression

Steve Roach on February 8, 2024

34 Going over to him, the Samaritan soothed his wounds with olive oil and wine and bandaged them. Then he put the man on his own donkey and took him to an inn, where he took care of him. 35 The next day he handed the innkeeper two silver coins, telling him, ‘Take care of this man. If his bill runs higher than this, I’ll pay you the next time I’m here.’

Luke 10:34-35 (NLT)

Expression

The good Samaritan gave up his work, time, and energy to help the man. Note what he did. Each step is significant in showing how we are to love our neighbors.

He went to him and reached out personally to help.
He soothed his wounds with oil and wine.
He bandaged up his wounds.
He set him on his donkey and sacrificed his comfort.
He provided rooming at an inn so he had a place to heal.
He cared for him for the night and ensured he was ok.
He enlisted the help of the innkeeper to take care of the man.

Showing love to one’s neighbor is putting love into action. Love is not just an idea or a feeling toward God. It involves practical acts and commitment to help anyone who needs help. What is the true expression of love? It means getting our hands dirty. It means doing for others what you want done for you. It means giving and sacrifice. It means doing whatever it takes to help someone in need. In 1 John 3:18, John writes, “Let us not love in word or in tongue, but in deed and in truth.”

It’s one thing to say we love our neighbor but another to express love in practice. Let’s not love in sentiment only but in practical deeds that make a difference in the lives of others. When we do, we point a lost world to Jesus. In Matthew 5:16, Jesus said, “In the same way, let your good deeds shine out for all to see, so that everyone will praise your heavenly Father.”

How will you be a light for the Lord today?

Digging Deeper – Example

Steve Roach on February 7, 2024

Then a despised Samaritan came along, and when he saw the man, he felt compassion for him.

Luke 10:33 (NLT)

Example

We may read the story of the Good Samaritan and think about the cost involved in loving our neighbor, but I would argue that it is far more costly not to care. The priest and the Levite lost far more by their neglect than the Samaritan did by his concern. They lost the opportunity to become better men. They lost their opportunity for influence because they failed to be a godly example.

My wife and I were driving with our 8-year-old son somewhere near Atlanta. We came to the end of our exit ramp and encountered a shabby-looking man holding a “please help” sign. My first reaction was to think this man had made poor choices in life and would spend whatever money he received on alcohol. My wife’s first reaction was to say, “Hey, Steve, give him some money.” My son is just taking it all in. I rolled my window down and somewhat reluctantly pulled a $20 bill from my wallet and gave it to the man. He responds with a “God bless you.”

A few years later, my son was riding in the car with me, and we encountered another man asking for help. He immediately said, “Dad, let’s give him some money.” I’ve thought about that scenario a good bit. I finally concluded that what the man does with the money is not my responsibility. What’s more important to me is the example of giving that my son has seen in his (somewhat reluctant) Dad. I pray that as he grows older and sees someone in need, he doesn’t think of a reason why he shouldn’t give. Instead, I hope he thinks, “How can I help?” That’s a lesson worth far more than $20.

Digging Deeper – Excuses

Steve Roach on February 6, 2024

By chance a priest came along. But when he saw the man lying there, he
crossed to the other side of the road and passed him by. A Temple
assistant walked over and looked at him lying there, but he also passed by
on the other side.

Luke 10:31-32 (NLT)

Excuses

Why didn’t the priest or the Levite stop to help the man? Some have conjectured they were concerned about defilement. A Jew would become “unclean” if he came into contact with a dead body. This would render him unable to worship. The man on the road may have appeared dead, so they did not want to risk defilement if there was nothing they could do. Or they had likely been serving God at the temple all week and were anxious to get home. They had places to go and people to see. Whatever the reason, they decided to bypass an opportunity to show love to a needy neighbor.

In the late 90’s, I was a young believer attending college at Georgia State University in downtown Atlanta. I would ride the Marta train into the Five Points station and take a 5–10-minute walk to class. One morning, I encountered a man on the sidewalk who was asking those who walked by for money for food. I could have kept walking because I needed to get to class on time. Besides, what money did I have to spare? I was just a college student. Instead of making excuses, the Spirit tugged on my heart to stop. I asked the man to follow me to the KFC restaurant down the street. I bought his meal and presented him with the food. I don’t remember much from this encounter, but I know he was appreciative. I learned that day that when I remove excuses from my heart, there is more room for love for my neighbors. It’s easy to make excuses. It takes work to love our neighbor. Let’s stop making excuses, get our hands dirty and love the way Jesus loved us.

Digging Deeper – Expectations

Steve Roach on February 5, 2024

Luke 10:31-32 (NLT)

Expectations

There are two shockers in this story. One is that the hated Samaritan cared enough to aid the hurt Jewish man on the side of the road. The second is that the Priests and Levites (Temple assistants) didn’t stop to help their countryman. Let’s focus on the latter today. A little background about these guys will help explain what I mean.

Priests and Levites had to have come from the tribe of Levi. The priests had to be not only Levites but also in the line of Aaron, Israel’s first high priest (Exodus 28:1–3). Priests and Levites had different jobs in and around the temple. Priests were authorized to perform the sacrifices. Levites were set apart to help the priests. They did the work of elders, servants, custodians, assistants, musicians, movers, and repairmen. Priests and Levites were supported by Israel’s tithes and by revenues from certain cities that had been given to them. Worship in the temple could not have taken place without the combined efforts of the priests and Levites. The bottom line is that they did significant work for the Lord.

The Old Testament law demanded that Jews do good deeds and care for those who were hurt. Jesus’ story highlights the shortcomings of the priest and the Levite because they were especially required to provide care. That they didn’t stop to help was jaw-dropping to those who heard this account.

As we think about those living around us who are skeptical about God, faith, and Christianity, they expect us to say one thing but live another. God, however, expects those who carry His name to be the hands and feet of Jesus to our hurting “neighbors.” Let’s live up to God’s expectations and not those of the skeptical world around us. Let’s give them a reason to believe there is a loving God who cares about them.