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Digging Deeper: Living Sent Where You Are

Minda Seagraves on July 22, 2025

Therefore go and make disciples of all nations…

Matthew 28:19a (NIV)

LIVING SENT WHERE YOU ARE

“Go.” It’s such a short, simple word—easy to understand and hard to ignore. It implies action. Movement. Response.

When someone says “go,” you don’t sit back and wait—you move. As kids, many of us heard that word while lined up at the top of a hill or the edge of a sidewalk, racing friends on bikes or on foot. On your mark. Get set. Go. It launched us into motion, filled with energy and anticipation.

That’s what Jesus was doing with the disciples in this passage. He wasn’t just offering them a good idea—He was giving them a mission. A purpose. A holy push forward.

At Northstar, we often use the phrase “Live Sent.” It’s a modern-day way of saying what Jesus said at the end of Matthew: Go. Make disciples. Live intentionally.

But here’s the thing—“going” looks different in every season of life.

When I first began walking with the Lord, my “go” looked like serving in the preschool ministry—reading Bible stories to toddlers and learning alongside them about who Jesus is. Later, I was called into vocational ministry. “Going” then meant leading Bible studies with coaches and athletes, sharing God’s truth in locker rooms, gyms, and on the sidelines.

Now, I find myself in a different kind of season. Chronic illness has changed what “going” can physically look like for me. There are days my feet can’t take me far—but my voice still can. I’ve learned that going isn’t always about crossing physical borders. Sometimes it’s about crossing internal ones—fear, fatigue, or the comfort of routine—and being willing to speak truth and encouragement even from a place of limitation.

The call to “go” can challenge us deeply—because let’s be honest, we’re busy. We’re tired. Our lives are full. And the idea of adding one more thing to the calendar can feel overwhelming.

But what if going isn’t about adding something?
What if it’s about reframing what’s already in front of us?

You don’t have to go overseas to live sent (though maybe one day God will call you to). You can “go” right into your office, your classroom, your gym, your neighborhood. It could look like showing up early once a week to lead a devotional with coworkers. Or choosing to show up to your regular life with an intentional posture—looking for ways to reflect Jesus in word and in deed.

Yes, that kind of “going” might feel uncomfortable at first. But that’s part of the beauty. Obedience rarely happens in comfort zones. It’s in the stretching that we grow—and in the going that others come to know Him.

Here’s the truth: every follower of Jesus is commissioned to go. Not necessarily to faraway places, but always to people. Our neighbors. Our coworkers. Our families. Our teammates. Our communities.

Wherever you are, there is your mission field.

Prayer:
Jesus, help me not to miss the opportunities right in front of me to live sent. Show me what “go” looks like in my current season. Give me boldness when I feel timid and faithfulness when I feel tired. Use me—right where I am—for Your glory.

Reflect:

Where has God already placed you that could become your mission field?
What small, intentional step of “going” could you take this week?

Minda Seagraves has been married to her best friend, Russell, for 17 years and is mom to Carson and Maddie. She is also a full-time missionary with the Fellowship of Christian Athletes, serving as a chaplain to local female high school teams and supports 380 staff across four states in the U.S. and 20 countries in East Africa as the Regional Director of Talent Advancement with FCA. Minda and her family live in Acworth and have been attending NorthStar Church since 2020.

Digging Deeper: All Authority — Trusting in Jesus’ Power

Minda Seagraves on July 21, 2025

Then Jesus came to them and said, ‘”All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me.”

Matthew 28:18 (NIV)

ALL AUTHORITY — TRUSTING IN JESUS’ POWER

There’s something remarkable about the way God weaves moments together with such intention that it can’t possibly be coincidence. A certain message, a Scripture passage, a conversation—lined up so specifically that it feels like it was handpicked just for you.

For many, the phrase “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me” might sound like a theological statement—true and powerful, but somehow distant. It’s one of those verses we’ve heard enough times to nod in agreement without really stopping to ask: What does that mean for my actual, everyday life?

But this verse from Matthew 28 hits differently when life feels out of your control.

For those walking through a difficult diagnosis, an extended season of caregiving, or the heavy grief of loss…
For those who have stepped away from a career they once loved or are living with limitations they never expected…
For anyone who has had to release the life they thought they’d be living—this verse becomes less of a concept and more of a lifeline.

Over the past several months, I’ve been walking through a season of chronic illness—a slow, exhausting wilderness that has stretched longer than I ever anticipated. It’s challenged everything I thought I understood about control, strength, and trust.

In the past, I could push through hard things. I could power my way out of discomfort with determination. But now, my days often begin and end with physical limitations I can’t “will” my way out of. I’ve grieved the version of myself who once operated with energy, ease, and independence—and I’ve had to ask: If You, Jesus, have all authority, why this? Why now? Why still?

And yet—this slow surrender is reshaping me. In the stripping away of what I once relied on, I’m being drawn closer to the One who truly holds my life in His hands. My grip is loosening. My dependency is growing. I’m learning—however reluctantly at times—that trusting His authority means trusting His timing, His pace, and even His silence.

There are seasons when trials come like waves—brief and forceful, but eventually passing. And then there are seasons when it feels like the waves never stop, when the storm isn’t just a moment but a new reality. In those places, trusting that Jesus holds all authority becomes more than a Sunday school answer—it becomes the foundation we cling to when nothing else feels stable.

Many of us know what it’s like to say we trust God’s authority while still quietly gripping tightly to our own plans and expectations. But prolonged struggle often reveals just how much we’ve been relying on ourselves. And in the unraveling, we’re invited into a deeper dependence—not a defeated one, but a holy one.

There’s beauty in that kind of surrender. Because when we’re no longer striving to manage everything, we’re finally free to sit at Jesus’ feet—open-handed, open-hearted, and ready to be filled. Sometimes, the most faithful thing we can do is simply show up in His presence—not with a to-do list, but with a quiet willingness to be led.

This isn’t the version of discipleship many of us imagined. It’s slower. It’s more dependent. It’s quieter. But it’s real. And it’s holy.

Because if we’re to be disciples who make disciples, we must first be people who know what it is to trust Jesus fully—not just with our salvation, but with our suffering. With our unknowns. With our today.

Prayer:
Jesus, help me not just to believe You have all authority, but to trust You with the parts of my life I can’t control. In the places where I feel powerless, remind me of Your power. In the waiting, be my peace. In the letting go, be my guide.

Reflect:

Where in your life are you being invited to trust Jesus’ authority more deeply?
What might it look like to loosen your grip and lean into His?

Digging Deeper: Linger

Minda Seagraves on January 31, 2025

⁴Remain in me, and I will remain in you. For a branch cannot produce fruit if it is severed from the vine, and you cannot be fruitful unless you remain in me.

⁵“Yes, I am the vine; you are the branches. Those who remain in me, and I in them, will produce much fruit. For apart from me you can do nothing.

John 15:4-5 (NLT)

LINGER

If you haven’t already guessed, I’m a “word” person. I love digging into a word’s original meaning, tracing it back to how it was used in its original context, and discovering the richness behind what the writer was trying to convey.

Because of that, it might not surprise you that every year, instead of setting resolutions or goals, I choose a word. Well, actually, I don’t choose the word—I let the Lord do that. Around September or October each year, I start praying and listening, asking God to reveal what He wants me to focus on for the upcoming year.

For 2025, the word He gave me is linger.

At first, I thought, That’s an odd word. I even waited, thinking maybe something else would rise to the surface. But He kept pressing this idea into my heart: staying with Him, abiding in Him, and spending unrushed, intentional time at His feet.

It all clicked when this verse came up in our small group. It was one of those sacred moments where the world around you fades away, and it feels like God is speaking directly to your heart. I knew, without a doubt, that linger was my word for 2025.

So, naturally, I did what I always do—I dove into Scripture, searching for verses about lingering. I found plenty of cross-references about abiding, but nothing that used the word linger itself. That was a first for me. Usually, I have a handful of anchor verses to guide me, but this year felt different.

It’s almost as if, by giving me a word that’s not commonly found in Scripture, God is inviting me to lean in closer—to press into Him and His Word in a deeper, more personal way so He can reveal what linger truly means for my heart. It feels like He’s calling me into a season of tender submission, where I sit with Him longer and let Him shape me in the stillness.

Whether you’re a “word” person, a resolutions person, or a goals person, I believe God is calling all of us to linger with Him. And it’s not just important—it’s vital.

Lingering with the Lord is how we make it through the heavy, hard days. It’s how we find strength for tough conversations and challenging situations. It’s how we remember where our power comes from.

As we step into 2025, I pray for God’s blessings over you. But more than that, I pray you’ll take time to pause, to sit with Him, and to linger just a little longer.

Digging Deeper: Serve Like Crazy

Minda Seagraves on January 30, 2025

For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for
us to do.

Ephesians 2:10

SERVE LIKE CRAZY

I’ll admit it—I like to take credit for the good things I do. Maybe it’s because I naturally drift toward selfishness or pride, but when I go out of my way to help someone or do something kind, it feels pretty great.

And honestly, I think it’s supposed to feel that way. There’s joy in serving others because God’s Word tells us we reflect Him most clearly when we serve. When our actions align with Christ, there’s a deep, soul-level happiness that comes from knowing we’re walking in step with Him.

But here’s the humbling part: whenever I stop to think about it, any good I do has far less to do with me and everything to do with Him.

In Ephesians, Paul tells us we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works. But he doesn’t stop there—he adds that these good works were prepared in advance for us. Every time I want to pat myself on the back for helping someone, I’m reminded of this verse. Yes, I feel joy and pride because I’m aligned with Christ in serving His creation, but even that opportunity, that desire to serve, comes from God.

It’s a mind-bender, really—any good we do is something God gave us so we could give it back to Him. It’s all about Him. Period.

So when we serve, let’s serve with our whole hearts. When we give, let’s give abundantly, knowing that every effort we make, every gift we offer, comes from the wellspring of God’s love and grace. Whether it’s something small or something monumental, God doesn’t measure our service by size. He only asks that we do it.

And here’s the catch: He calls us to serve everyone. Not just those who look like us, talk like us, or believe like us—but everyone. He calls us to love and serve with the same lavish, reckless abandon that He loves us with.

We’ll never be able to match the degree to which Christ served and loved us, but what if that was our aim? What if we woke up every day determined to serve others so radically that people around us thought we were absolutely crazy?

You know what? I’ll take it. I’ll gladly be called crazy for the way I love and serve others because isn’t that what they said about Jesus? Didn’t people judge and criticize Him for the way He lavishly loved and served?

That’s our example. That’s our goal—not to serve when it’s convenient or easy, but to step into the good works God prepared for us, even when they stretch us beyond our limits. And when that happens, we can tap into the Holy Spirit’s power to do what God has called us to do.

When we serve and love others like that, we’ll find ourselves waking up the next day ready to do it all over again—and the day after that, and the day after that.

Digging Deeper: Fall and Get Back Up

Minda Seagraves on January 29, 2025

My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.

Psalm 73:26

FALL AND GET BACK UP

I recently read John Mark Comer’s book Practicing the Way, and there’s a part that really stuck with me. He shares a conversation with some monks who were asked what they do all day in the monastery. Their reply? “Fall and get back up, fall and get back up, fall and get back up.”

What a beautiful picture of what it means to be apprentices of Jesus!

I love the mental image this creates—someone praying, serving, and seeking God daily, even though they don’t always get it right. It’s a reminder that even the most devoted people stumble. But here’s the thing: we tend to be so much harder on ourselves than God ever is. When we fail to measure up, we need to ask: who set the standard? Spoiler alert—it’s probably not God.

The Lord’s standard for us is simple: turn to Him daily and seek His will. He knows we’re going to mess up. He knows we’ll fall short. He knows we’ll fail—again and again—and yet, He loves us. He loved us before we messed up, and He loves us no matter how big or small the mess.

As Psalm 73:26 reminds us: “My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.” That’s not just a feel-good phrase or a motivational quote for a coffee mug. It’s a promise we can rely on. Yes, we’re going to fall, but our strength doesn’t come from us—it comes from God. He’s the one who gives us what we need to get back up, dust ourselves off, and keep going.

When failure happens (and it will), it’s not the time to throw in the towel. It’s the time to take a deep breath, learn from the mistake, and press forward. The scraped knees we get along the way? They’re not wasted. God uses even those to teach us, shape us, and remind us that He’s walking with us every step of the journey.

So, when you stumble, remember: fall and get back up, fall and get back up, fall and get back up. And keep moving forward with Him.

Digging Deeper: Great Passion

Minda Seagraves on January 28, 2025

Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord.

Romans 12:11

GREAT PASSION

The Oxford Dictionary defines passion as a “strong and barely controllable emotion.” You don’t have to look far to see passionate people. Whether it’s a sports team, a political movement, or even strong opinions about how people should drive in a roundabout, passion is everywhere. If there’s one thing we’re not short on, it’s enthusiasm.

But here’s the kicker: while we can easily get fired up about all kinds of things, many of us struggle to channel that same level of passion into our faith—the kind of passion Paul describes in Romans 12. We know what passion looks like in everyday life, but what does it mean to be passionate in following Jesus? Let’s break it down using Paul’s words.

First, Paul tells us to “never be lacking in zeal.” What’s zeal, exactly? Back to the Oxford Dictionary: it’s “great energy or enthusiasm in pursuit of a cause or objective.”
Next, he says to “keep your spiritual fervor.” Fervor? That’s defined as “an intense and passionate feeling.”
Finally, Paul connects these ideas to serving the Lord.

When you put it all together, it sounds a little like that guy at the football game in subzero weather, completely decked out in body paint and screaming at the top of his lungs. That’s a visual, right? But it’s actually a great picture of what passion in pursuit of a cause can look like.

Now, imagine if we, as believers, harnessed that same energy and enthusiasm—not to be the person on the street corner with a megaphone, but to live out our faith with that level of excitement and commitment. What if we approached being an apprentice of Jesus with the same intensity as body paint guy does for his team?

Too often, we make faith look like a list of rules: the do’s, the don’ts, and the have-nots. Sure, there are boundaries to follow, but we don’t spend enough time highlighting the good that comes from them—the freedom those guardrails provide and the joy we get to experience as followers of Christ.

What if we shared the full picture of faith? The passion. The joy. The freedom. The incredible adventure of following Jesus. Because when we do, faith becomes irresistible—not just for us, but for everyone around us.

Digging Deeper: When Plans Change

Minda Seagraves on January 27, 2025

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans
to give you hope and a future.”

Jeremiah 29:11

WHEN PLANS CHANGE

According to Google’s AI overview, Jeremiah 29:11 is one of the most well-known scriptures about God’s plans for us—and honestly, I have to agree. But let’s be real: when life feels hard, disappointing, or just far from what we imagined it should be, it can be tough to hold on to the promise in these words. And yet, those moments are precisely when we need to cling to them—not because it feels easy, logical, or even natural, but because we know deep down they are true.

Looking back on my own life, I can think of plenty of times when my plans didn’t pan out. One that stands out, for whatever reason, is my early college experience. I was certain I was going to pharmacy school. I thought, This is the plan. All I need to do is work hard, and it’ll happen. In high school, I didn’t have to try too hard to get good grades, so I assumed college would be the same. Spoiler alert: it wasn’t.

College required more than just showing up and glancing over my notes. Before the drop/add period ended in my first semester, I found myself sitting in the registrar’s office, withdrawing from every single class. With that decision, my dreams, hopes, and vision for the future seemed to evaporate. It felt like failure on every level.

Peter’s story reminds me that I’m not alone in this. From what we know of his life, he had more than a few plans that didn’t go the way he expected. As a boy, he probably dreamed of becoming a rabbi but ended up taking on the family fishing business instead. Later, he followed Jesus, believing Him to be the Messiah, only to have that hope seemingly shattered at the crucifixion. And then, just as his world had turned upside down, the resurrected Jesus appeared to him, changing everything once again.

I imagine Peter often felt like he couldn’t figure out which way was up. He had plans—good plans, noble plans, exciting plans—but that’s the thing about plans: they rarely turn out how we expect.

There’s a saying I’ve always liked: Plan like it depends on you, and pray like it depends on God. It’s good advice because we’re not called to sit idly by, waiting for things to fall into place. God invites us to dream, plan, and act. The key, though, is making sure our plans align with His will—and being willing to let Him take the lead, even if it means abandoning our carefully laid-out path.

Like He did for Peter—and like He’s done for me—God often gives us a new course to follow. What feels like a detour or a derailment to us is never a surprise to Him. And in the way only He can, He takes those moments and turns them into something more beautiful and amazing than we could have ever imagined.

Digging Deeper: A Royal Priesthood

Minda Seagraves on September 27, 2024

But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession…

1 Peter 2:9 (NIV)

A ROYAL PRIESTHOOD

Last year, I watched the Netflix drama series The Crown, which tells the story of Queen Elizabeth II. Although I’m not usually fascinated by the royal family, this series gave me a newfound respect for them. It illuminated the intentionality and discipline that Queen Elizabeth adhered to in her daily life. She took her role not just as the Queen very seriously; she understood that her actions and demeanor were a reflection of the crown and what it represented. She set a standard by embodying what was considered good, proper, and acceptable.

Just as Queen Elizabeth took her earthly role of royalty seriously, we, too, have a significant role as a “royal priesthood” in God’s kingdom. Others are observing us to see what is good and right. We might be the only representation of Jesus that some people will ever encounter.

The description of believers as a “royal priesthood” and a “holy nation” highlights our unique role and identity. As priests, we have the privilege of representing God to others and offering spiritual sacrifices. This identity calls us to live with integrity and purpose, reflecting God’s holiness and engaging in His mission.

Lord, I am grateful for my identity as part of Your royal priesthood. Help me to live up to this responsibility by representing You well and offering my life as a spiritual sacrifice. Guide me to serve others with love and to reflect Your holiness in all that I do.

Consider what it means to be part of a royal priesthood. How does this identity influence your actions and relationships?

Digging Deeper: Called Out of Darkness

Minda Seagraves on September 26, 2024

…that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.

1 Peter 2:9 (NIV)

CALLED OUT OF DARKNESS

A few years ago, a friend introduced me to the world of backpacking. She had just begun section-hiking the Appalachian Trail, and her plan didn’t involve camping out, but rather hiking to different cabins each night. Intrigued and excited, I decided to join her. It was far more challenging than I had anticipated, but I loved it so much that I soon invested in all the necessary gear to continue on my own.

Day hiking, where you return to a cabin with running water and electricity, is quite different from backpacking. Backpacking means carrying everything you need, including your sleeping arrangements, on your back. I thought I was well-prepared for my first overnight trip on the trail. Common sense told me it would be dark at night, but nothing could have prepared me for the sheer depth of darkness. Out there, with only a headlamp or a few stars to light the way, the darkness is profound.

During those first hours on the trail, I could think only of the moment when dawn would break. There’s a precious hour in the morning when the first hints of light begin to emerge over the landscape. It’s in those moments that fear subsides and hope is renewed.

We are naturally drawn to the light.

This verse reminds us of the profound transformation that comes with God’s call. We have been called out of spiritual darkness into His marvelous light, signifying a radical change in our lives. Our new position in this light brings with it the responsibility to declare God’s praises and share the hope we’ve found in Him with others.

Father, thank You for calling me out of darkness and into Your light. Help me to live in a way that reflects Your light and to boldly share the story of Your grace and salvation with those around me. May my life stand as a testimony to Your goodness.

Reflect on your personal journey from darkness to light. How can you be a beacon of light to others? In what ways can you share the transformative power of God’s grace in your daily interactions?

Digging Deeper: Living Stones in God’s House

Minda Seagraves on September 25, 2024

You also, like living stones, are being built into a spiritual house…

1 Peter 2:5 (NIV)

LIVING STONES IN GOD’S HOUSE

Building a house from the ground up is a significant task. We’ve done it twice, and each time taught me valuable lessons. During our first build, I made plenty of mistakes—mostly with picking colors, tiles, and countertops. The options were overwhelming, and my choices reflected that. The second time, I enlisted help from a brilliant designer friend. I created a few Pinterest boards to share my vision, and she transformed those ideas into a beautifully designed home. Despite the differences in style and size between the two homes, one thing remained consistent: neither could truly take shape until the foundation was laid.

Christ is our firm foundation. Peter describes us as “living stones” being built into a spiritual house, highlighting our role within God’s community. Just as a house needs a strong foundation, the Church needs each of us to contribute to its structure. Every living stone plays a vital role, adding to the strength and beauty of this spiritual house. Our actions and lives impact the collective witness of the Church. By living out our faith, we help build and strengthen God’s spiritual house.

Lord, help me recognize my role as a living stone in Your spiritual house. Guide me to use my gifts and talents to contribute positively to Your Church. May my life reflect Your glory and strengthen the community of believers.

Reflect on how you can actively contribute to the spiritual growth and unity of your church community. What unique qualities or gifts has God given you that you can offer to build up His house?