Digging Deeper: Impatient Man Meets Patient God
Now Sarai, Abram’s wife, had borne him no children…
Genesis 16:1 (ESV)
IMPATIENT MAN MEETS PATIENT GOD
We live in an impatient world created by a patient God. Webster’s dictionary defines patient as: “bearing pains for trials calmly or without complaint; not hasty or impetuous; steadfast despite opposition, difficulty, or adversity; able or willing to bear.” A cursory glance at the last days of Jesus’ life will give you the perfect picture of patience as described above.
When you read the story of the Jewish people wandering in the desert for 40 years, the one word that often appears is “grumble.” The people were constantly grumbling about their conditions, and patience was a virtue that they had yet to learn. There are many synonyms for the word patient. The ones that stand out have to do with time (enduring, persevering, persistent, untiring), and with attitude (meek, serene, and unruffled). I think we can all safely say that patiently waiting (time) with a calm outlook (attitude) is not one of our strengths (if it is a strength for you, we will all be attending your next seminar on the subject)!
As we pick up the story of Abram and Sarai, it has been ten years since God promised Abram, “I will make of you a great nation,” (Gen 12:2a), and later told him, “‘Look toward heaven, and number the stars, if you are able to number them.’ Then he said to him, ‘So shall your offspring be’” (Gen 15:5b). Abram is in his mid-eighties, and Sarai is in her mid-seventies. Not exactly prime child-bearing years. Genesis chapter 16 begins with a simple statement of fact that Sarai is barren. The promise has not yet been fulfilled, and Sarai’s patience is wearing thin. As we journey through Genesis 16 this week, we will see how a lack of patience on one side, and an abundance of patience on the other side, plays out for all of humanity.
God does things in His own timing, for His purpose, and for His glory. The prophet Jeremiah reminds us, “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope” (Jer 29:11). Peter told his readers, “The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance.” (2 Pet 3:9). We should all thank God for that patience!
God has a plan for each of us, fulfilled in His timing. However, our patience is often lacking as we wait for the story to unfold. Paul reminded his readers that, “if we hope for what we do not see, we wait for it with patience” (Rom 8:25).
My challenge to each of you this week is to investigate your own life, and strive to wait patiently based on the hope that Paul describes. It will be worth the wait!
Phil Meade is a father of three, and grandfather of five. He has a Masters in Theological Studies from Liberty University, and lives in Acworth. He has led various small groups throughout his more than 20 years attending NorthStar Church. He recently retired after 33 years as a pilot for Delta Airlines.