Digging Deeper: Humility and Self-Awareness

In a recent conversation with a young adult, they talked about taking a break from social media and setting boundaries for how they would return. When I asked why, their response surprised me. They admitted to mindlessly scrolling, wasting tons of time, and “losing brain cells.” The most surprising part was that they realized how much they had been buying products based on influencers’ recommendations—things they neither needed nor wanted, which are now being donated. As we parted, they shared some good news: they now have time to focus on the spiritual disciplines they have been learning about in their small group! The self-awareness and humility in their story are both refreshing and convicting.

My young friend was practicing what Paul encourages all of us to do in Romans. Being honest and using sober judgment to see ourselves as God sees us is key to avoiding disillusionment. Paul urges us not to be arrogant and to recognize our worth and abilities in light of God’s grace. He practices this humility and self-awareness in writing to Timothy, declaring himself the worst among sinners (1 Timothy 1:15). Paul understood that any ability he had was a result of God’s grace, not his own merit.

Charles Spurgeon says of Paul’s declaration: “This godly sensitivity toward sin was associated in the apostle’s mind with an equally vivid sense of the freeness and richness of divine grace.” He adds, “The people who are most clear in their witness that salvation is by grace are also the people for whom sin is exceedingly sinful.”

Living with self-awareness and humility helps create a right view of who we are in Christ. Like my young friend, we will stop the mindless scrolling and empty purchases, making space for time with God, prayer, and serving others. Disillusionment with ourselves over sin will turn to repentance and living in the power of the cross and Christ’s forgiveness.