Author: Chris Boggess

12 Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. 13 Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. 14 Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony.

Colossians 3:12-14 (NLT)

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DRESSED TO LOVE

Steve Jobs, Mark Zuckerberg, and Albert Einstein all shared something in common. They often would be seen wearing the same outfit. Every day, they would get up and put on the same outfit as the day before, or one so similar that no one would know the difference. The idea is that this is a choice that you need to make every morning, so rather than spending time choosing their daily look, they would wear the same thing every day, so they would have more brainpower to put into the tasks that matter.

Paul encourages his readers to clothe themselves in the same outfit each day. Read the passage above and imagine how clothing yourself in mercy, kindness, humility, and patience would look in your daily life. How would making this your daily routine change your life and the people around you?

I have heard of people praying through the armor of God. They mention each piece of armor and imagine putting it on. What if we did the same thing with this passage, clothing ourselves for the day in love and forgiveness? We could pray through each attribute, consciously adding it to our daily ensemble. Then, if you are one of those who put on the armor of God daily, add that on top. After all, armor without clothing under it would be much less effective.

Take a moment and pray through Colossians 3:12-14. Ask God to clothe you in the attributes it lists. Ask him to prepare you to show love today. Pray that all who see you will see the love of God in all you do and say.

 

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Chris Boggess is the Next Generation/Family Pastor at NorthStar Church. He grew up in St. Albans, West Virginia, and still cheers for the Mountaineers. He and his wife, Heather, have two grown children and one granddaughter.

1 If I could speak all the languages of earth and of angels, but didn’t love others, I would only be a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I had the gift of prophecy, and if I understood all of God’s secret plans and possessed all knowledge, and if I had such faith that I could move mountains, but didn’t love others, I would be nothing. 3 If I gave everything I have to the poor and even sacrificed my body, I could boast about it; but if I didn’t love others, I would have gained nothing.

1 Corinthians 13:1-7 (NLT)

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THE ONLY WAY TO WIN

There is a scene in the movie Elf (if you will indulge a Christmas movie reference here on the cusp of summer) where Buddy, the protagonist of the movie, is walking around New York City when he sees a neon sign in a window that reads “World’s Best Cup of Coffee.” Buddy immediately turns back, walks into the diner, and says, “Congratulations, you did it!” while everyone in the restaurant stares blankly at him. In Buddy’s childlike perception, he believes the sign, but we know it is just an advertising ploy.

We live in a world where winning matters. Everyone wants to be the best at whatever they are doing. I play games with middle schoolers often; they want to win no matter what we are playing! I have heard serious arguments over a foul ball in a kickball game where the only prize was winning, and for them and many of us, winning matters!

In the passage above, Paul describes someone the world would say is a winner by any measurement. The person is an intellectual polyglot who can speak with angels. They know what God is planning. They can perform miraculous acts. They give things to people in need and will do whatever for others. If you need an organ, they are your donors! This person scores on every measurement. But Paul explains that the final score needs one more calculation. Add all these things together and subtract love, and your final answer is zero, nothing! Anything minus love becomes valueless. Just doing things without loving the people is like putting a sign in the window that says “World’s best cup of coffee.” It’s meaningless – or worse – it is deceptive. Love is what gives our actions meaning.

Take time to pray and ask God to show you the area in your life where everyone would say you are “winning,” but you have missed out on the love. Ask God for help injecting his love into everything you do.

 

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Chris Boggess is the Next Generation/Family Pastor at NorthStar Church. He grew up in St. Albans, West Virginia, and still cheers for the Mountaineers. He and his wife, Heather, have two grown children and one granddaughter.

If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. ² And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. ³ If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned,^[a] but have not love, I gain nothing.

⁴ Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant ⁵ or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful;^[b] 6 it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. ⁷ Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

1 Corinthians 13:1-7 (ESV)

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WHERE SHOULD WE LOVE?

There are places where I am not good at showing love. One is my truck. It’s just that there are so many people on the road who are actively making themselves difficult to love! My dashcam proves it! They cut me off, change lanes without their blinker, or turn on their blinker and start coming into my lane even though I am here next to them in my bright red truck, which has somehow been rendered temporarily invisible. It’s easy to write people off whom you don’t know and who are separated from you by a wall of glass and steel.

But really, the truck is just a symptom. To tell the truth, I am not very loving in many places, and you probably aren’t either. Look at the list above in verses 4-7. We love that list. We read it at weddings and hold it up as an example, but it is a mirror. It shows us how far we are from being loving people.

If you don’t think that’s true, just put your name in place of love and see how far you get before you feel a bit convicted. “Chris is patient and kind; Chris does not envy or boast; he is not arrogant or rude. He doesn’t insist on his own way…” You get it, right? It gets tricky in verse 7 because of that recurring phrase “all things.” That includes the times when things don’t go your way. This passage shows us the ideal and how far we miss the loving mark.

Take time now to pray through the first verses of 1 Corinthians 13. Ask God to show you where you are falling short, and ask him to make you more loving. Ask God to show you (or perhaps you already know) the places where you tend to be less loving and ask him to help you change that.

 

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Chris Boggess is the Next Generation/Family Pastor at NorthStar Church. He grew up in St. Albans, West Virginia, and still cheers for the Mountaineers. He and his wife, Heather, have two grown children and one granddaughter.

“You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ ⁴⁴ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, ⁴⁵ that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. ⁴⁶ If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? ⁴⁷ And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? ⁴⁸ Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.

Matthew 5:43-48 (NIV)

 

One of the teachers of the law came and heard them debating. Noticing that Jesus had given them a good answer, he asked him, “Of all the commandments, which is the most important?”

²⁹ “The most important one,” answered Jesus, “is this: ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. ³⁰ Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’  ³¹ The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’  There is no commandment greater than these.”

Mark 12:28-31 (NIV)

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WHO SHOULD WE LOVE?

Commander Mitsuo Fuchida was a Japanese pilot during World War 2. He was a leader in the attack on Pearl Harbor that started the war and was active throughout. He devoted his life to the warrior culture that permeated the Japanese military. Revenge and honor were the two things that drove him. He survived the war with several near misses on his life.

After the war, many Japanese went on trial for war crimes because of the mistreatment of American POWs. Fuchida assumed that the U.S. had treated the Japanese POWs just as severely. When he spoke to a friend who had been a prisoner, his friend relayed a story of the kindness of an American woman, Peggy Covell, whose missionary parents were killed by Japanese soldiers. She showed compassion instead of taking revenge on these men who were her enemies.

Fuchida became interested in Christianity because of the actions of this one woman and eventually became a believer, preaching around the world and leading many to Christ.

Most of us are mindful of the passage above from Mark 12. After all, we hear it every Sunday, “Love God, love people, live sent.” But Jesus had a more difficult call than just loving our neighbor. The “love people” part of our challenge includes people who are actively opposed to us. God calls us to love our enemies because that is not the world’s culture. Loving our enemies stands out.

Take a moment to pray and ask God to show you who you need to love, not just your neighbor and those who are easy to love, but also the tough ones. Maybe it is someone you work with or perhaps someone from a different political party. Maybe it’s a family member who gossips behind your back or someone whose lifestyle differs from yours. It will be difficult, but it is not beyond what the Holy Spirit can do in your life, as Jesus says at the end of the passage in Matthew, “Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.” Pray that God will perfect your love.

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Chris Boggess is the Next Generation/Family Pastor at NorthStar Church. He grew up in St. Albans, West Virginia, and still cheers for the Mountaineers. He and his wife, Heather, have two grown children and one granddaughter.

Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony.

Colossians 3:12-14 (NLT)

 

Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. ⁸ Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him.  In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins. 

1 John 4:7-10 (NLT)

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WHAT IS LOVE?

What is love? This seems like a straightforward question. I mean, we all know what love is, right? I love my wife, I love my job, I love my neighbor, and I love… pizza? We throw around the word love a lot. But what do we mean by love? Pizza isn’t a genuine rival for my affection for my wife. That would be weird. I know what I mean by love in those examples, but if you didn’t know my definition, you might not understand who I am. You need to know what I mean when I say love, and if we want to understand the scriptures above, we need to know what they mean by love.

God wants us to love like he does. In 1 John, we read that God is love. It’s not that He is good at loving or even the best at loving, but he IS love; it’s part of Him. So we can learn to love from Him. The prime example of God’s love is Jesus dying for us.

The verse from Colossians tells us to “clothe ourselves” in love. What we wear is a choice we make, just like the kind of selfless love that Scripture suggests we have toward others. In the same way, earlier in the verse, it tells us that God chose us to be his holy people whom He loves. He loves us, not because we are worthy of love, but because He chooses to love us. Then He calls us to love others similarly, not because they are worthy, but because we choose to love like God.

Take a few minutes to pray and ask God to show you the people today who need to see the love of God through you.

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Chris Boggess is the Next Generation/Family Pastor at NorthStar Church. He grew up in St. Albans, West Virginia, and still cheers for the Mountaineers. He and his wife, Heather, have two grown children and one granddaughter.

“Now go; I’m sending you out like lambs among wolves.”

Luke 10:3

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COYOTES IN THE NEIGHBORHOOD

 

I saw a coyote in my neighborhood. I pulled out of my driveway early one morning, and as I slowly moved down the street, he came out of the trees like a ghost. He was a big boy. Not a wolf, but I wouldn’t want to meet that creature in the dark. He was slightly bigger than a German Shepherd (some of that might be the bulk of his winter coat). His long snout and loping stride gave away his wildness. He was not a dog or someone’s pet. He glided across the road through the beams of my headlights and disappeared into a tree-filled space by a creek that ran through our neighborhood.

Seeing him has caused me to think a little differently. I know he isn’t interested in me as prey, but seeing that lupine form in all his fluid grace made me a little warier when I take the trash out at night to the lightless lower side of our house, the side closest to the woods.

Wolves are made to hunt. And in their own territory, they are extremely dangerous. A full-grown ram would have his horns full with wolves around, but a lamb would be easy prey. So, when Jesus tells those he sends that they will be like lambs among wolves, that is a dire warning.

How does a lamb protect itself against wolves? First, keep the flock nearby. Having other believers around you to lift you up is essential. And it is even better when you give them the license to correct you when you stray. Accountability gives you protection from the wolves in your life.

Second, Keep the shepherd in sight. We must take time each day to “lock eyes with Jesus.” In my personal life, I can tell the difference between when I take the time to get myself into the right relationship with the Good Shepherd and when I don’t. It makes the difference. If you don’t take time to run to him, then you might just spend your day running from wolves.

What are the wolves in your life? The things that are too big to handle on your own? Lift them up to Jesus and share them with other believers you trust.

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Chris Boggess is the Next Generation/Family Pastor at NorthStar Church. He grew up in St. Albans, West Virginia, and still cheers for the Mountaineers. He and his wife, Heather, have two grown children and one granddaughter.

After this many of his disciples turned back and no longer walked with him. ⁶⁷ So Jesus said to the twelve, “Do you want to go away as well?” Simon Peter answered him, “Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life, ⁶⁹ and we have believed, and have come to know, that you are the Holy One of God.”

John 6:66-69 (NLT)

“Now go; I’m sending you out like lambs among wolves.”

Luke 10:3

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TRUTH SEEKERS

 

The Barna Group is a company that does interviews and compiles data on many topics related to faith and Christianity. I was reading a recent study that polled Christians, non-Christians, and Pastors, and the results were fascinating. When asked what might make them doubt the Christian faith, the Christians said “human suffering” gave them some doubts. But when non-Christians were polled, almost half of them said that the thing that makes them doubt Christianity is the hypocrisy of religious people.

Along those same lines, when the question was, “What are you looking for spiritually?” Christians and non-Christians agreed that “inner peace” and “hope” are in their top three. But Christians rounded out the top choices with “forgiveness,” while the non-Christians said “truth.”

Paul says, “For I do not understand my own actions. For I do not do what I want, but I do the very thing I hate.” (Romans 7:15). This is something I think we can all identify with. It is probably also why Christians round out their top three with forgiveness and may also be why the non-Christians polled were quick to think of Christians as hypocrites. We know that we have these struggles with sin. When we try to constantly hide this struggle and put up a front of perfection, we set ourselves up for a fall. Then, we end up being the obstacle for non-Christians. They see us as hypocrites.

The people around us don’t need to see perfection. They need to know that we are not perfect but striving to live the best we can, not because we want to earn heaven, but because we are thankful that heaven has already been given to us.

Jesus said to Thomas, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” (John 14:6). He offered the inner peace we crave by saying he is “the Way.” The best way to inner peace is to live in this world as a follower of the way Jesus showed us. Jesus fulfills the need for hope by offering “life.” He says his life is more abundant (John 10:10) and leads to eternity (John 10:27-28). And finally, he lets us know he embodies the absolute truth; not the subjective truth of our modern world (as if truth could be subjective), but eternal truth.

So, as we “live sent” in the world, let’s not live behind a mask of perfection, pretending we are always right and always alright. Instead, let’s live in the way of Jesus and let people see the truth of who he is through our lives, and when we fall short, acknowledge it and seek forgiveness. By living that way, we can show the forgiveness and hope he offers in the way we live our lives.

 

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Chris Boggess is the Next Generation/Family Pastor at NorthStar Church. He grew up in St. Albans, West Virginia, and still cheers for the Mountaineers. He and his wife, Heather, have two grown children and one granddaughter.

For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, ⁹ not a result of works, so that no one may boast. 

Ephesians 2:8-9 (NLT)

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“GRAPE” IS NOT THE ANSWER

 

I love the game Wordle. A quick round of the game is often part of my morning routine. It is a great way to wake up my mind and get me thinking. But I never believed that Wordle might have something to teach me about my faith. I was wrong.

The game is pretty simple. You get five letter blanks, and you enter a five-letter word. If you guessed a letter not in the word, it would appear in grey. If you guess a letter that is in the word but not in the position where you put it, it appears in yellow. It appears in green if it is the correct letter and in the proper position. You get six guesses. I usually get it on guess four.

On the morning in question, I started with my usual first guess, “FRAME.” I have never gotten it on the first guess, but maybe someday. The game told me that R, A, and E were the correct letters in the proper position. “Looks like I might get it in three,” I thought as I entered “GRAPE.” I know what you’re thinking. “GRAPE? Why GRAPE?” I don’t know. It was a heat-of-the-moment decision, but it wasn’t terrible because now G, R, A, and E were all green!

For guess three, I entered “GRAZE”… wrong. Guess four was “GRADE”… wrong again. Now things were getting a little desperate. I entered “GRATE” for my fifth guess but still no joy. Final guess, and then I saw it, what some of you will have seen already, “GRACE.” I plugged in the letters and it came up all green. The game posted “phew” across the top of the screen to let me know how close I came.

Grace can be a hard thing for us to see. We have our own ideas about how God should work, and most of the time it looks more like Karma than grace. We hear people say that God can’t exist because bad things happen to good people and that is God’s fault; but, in the same breath they will invoke Karma and tell someone “what goes around comes around.” So which way is it?

The only way it makes sense is that we as humans do our level best to mess everything up. We GRATE people. The definition of Grate is to shred or to make annoying sounds. We hurt each other going through our lives myopically ignoring the problems of the people around us. We make sure that people know what we are against louder than we let them know what we are for.

We GRAZE. We go after every little thing that draws our attention. We live our lives counter to God’s rules, chasing sex and money and anything else that takes our fancy.

We GRADE. We judge ourselves and others by comparing. We compare paychecks, addresses and sins. We want to put ourselves and others into categories that make us comfortable.

God knows we will do this and he offers GRACE. Not because we are so great, but because God is. Not because we deserve it but because it is His to offer. This is the message that the world needs. This is the seed that Jesus planted.

When we are there at the end, the last guess, with nowhere else to turn, GRACE is the answer. And GRACE is the gospel we can share with the world.

 

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Chris Boggess is the Next Generation/Family Pastor at NorthStar Church. He grew up in St. Albans, West Virginia, and still cheers for the Mountaineers. He and his wife, Heather, have two grown children and one granddaughter.

After this, the Lord appointed seventy-two others, and he sent them ahead of him in pairs to every town and place where he himself was about to go. He told them, “The harvest is abundant, but the workers are few. Therefore, pray to the Lord of the harvest to send out workers into his harvest.

Luke 10:1-2 (NLT)

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LIVING SENT FIRST

 

Several months ago, Shelby, our NextGen Director of Student Worship, approached me. She told me she had an opportunity to attend a graduate music program. As she described it to me, I heard what a fantastic opportunity it would be for her to grow musically and professionally. But as we talked more, she let me know she wanted to do it, not because of the personal growth, but for the ministry opportunity it provided. This was a chance to minister in an exclusive world that would not be open to just anyone. This was a chance to minister in a way that she was ideally and specifically suited. She was being invited into this world, and even though it meant more work for her, she wanted the chance to try to reach some of the people in the program.

It strikes me that we make many decisions based on whether we will make more money, move up in our jobs, or grow personally. While none of those motivations are wrong, most of us do not consider the opportunity to minister and share the gospel when considering a job change or a promotion. We just think about how it will make us better or give us a financial boost. We will acknowledge the blessing of it, but do we ever consider it an appointment like what Jesus did with the 72?

Each of us is divinely gifted and ordained to serve God. For most, the field of service is in the place where you are each day. Students, do you realize that God is appointing you to be his ministers in your school and that each class and club is a divine opportunity to reach out to students that maybe no one else can or will reach? Adults, the same goes for your workplace, college classes, neighborhood, and pickleball club. Everywhere you go, you can be a lifeline to the gospel for the people who may not have another.

I pray that we will be people who consider the opportunities we are given as blessings that lead to opportunities to share the grace of God with the people to whom God has provided us access. And that will be our first consideration as we look at new life opportunities. This is the core of living sent.

 

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Chris Boggess is the Next Generation/Family Pastor at NorthStar Church. He grew up in St. Albans, West Virginia, and still cheers for the Mountaineers. He and his wife, Heather, have two grown children and one granddaughter.

After this, the Lord appointed seventy-two others, and he sent them ahead of him in pairs to every town and place where he himself was about to go.

Luke 10:1 (NLT)

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WHAT CAN A FEW DO?

 

When I think of a large population that is mainly non-Christian, my mind goes to the nation of China. China’s population is approximately 1.42 billion people. A liberal estimate of the percentage of Christians would be around 2.9%, meaning there are roughly 1.38 billion non-Christians in the country. The harvest is plentiful, for sure!

Let us do a little thought experiment. Let’s say we could transport NorthStar Church to China, and that we do three packed-out services with 3000 people every Sunday! Even more extraordinary is that everyone who comes turns to Jesus as their savior. With that kind of fantastic response, it would only take us 9,137 years to reach the unchurched population of China as long as we didn’t take any Sundays off. The population would die off long before they could be reached.

But what if we sent one person, and they spent a year teaching and discipling one person who comes to Christ. At the end of the year, they each find one new person to walk with, and at the end of two years, one person will have reached three. If they continued like this, with each one reaching one person and then doing the same year after year, the unchurched in China would be reached in around 30 years. And not just reached, but discipled and reaching out to others (by the way, I did the same math starting with 72 instead of one person, and they would be able to reach the nation in 24 years, which is fewer than NorthStar has been around).

So, when we ask, “What are we to do? The harvest is so large, and I am so small.” The answer is to reach one. Find that one person you can intentionally pour into and show them who Jesus is, then encourage them to do the same.

One patient, intentional relationship – is that something you could do? Then you can follow the parable of Jesus in the Gospel of Mark: “And he said, ‘The kingdom of God is as if a man should scatter seed on the ground. He sleeps and rises night and day, and the seed sprouts and grows; he knows not how. The earth produces by itself, first the blade, then the ear, then the full grain in the ear. But when the grain is ripe, at once he puts in the sickle, because the harvest has come.'” Mark 4:26-29.

You may not see the seed germinate, or the first sprouts grow, but the harvest will come if you are patient.

A few can do much. Even one can reach billions.

 

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Chris Boggess is the Next Generation/Family Pastor at NorthStar Church. He grew up in St. Albans, West Virginia, and still cheers for the Mountaineers. He and his wife, Heather, have two grown children and one granddaughter.