Digging Deeper: Posture of Obedience

Avatar photo Bridget Turner on July 26, 2024

 

“Then if my people who are called by my name will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, I will hear from heaven and will forgive their sins and restore their land.”

2 Chronicles 7:14 (NLT)

 

POSTURE OF OBEDIENCE

 

My small group just finished a study on the book of Numbers, where the Israelites constantly complain and bring their issues to Moses. Each time, Moses falls on his face and seeks God’s guidance and direction (see Numbers 14, 16, and 27). Bible teacher Jackie Hill Perry talked about this on social media recently. She pondered Moses’ consistent restraint to not respond first by asking, “Have you ever wondered how our responses to things would change if we just prayed quicker? We might pray eventually, but not immediately. How would that change the way we show up in the circumstance?” Perry adds, “I think it would give us a level of compassion, grace, and wisdom that a delayed prayer would not.”

We see this same posture in the servant found in Genesis 24. He asks God for very specific things to ensure he knows who Isaac’s wife will be. When God answers those prayers by bringing Rebekah to the well, verse 26 says, “The man bowed low and worshiped the Lord.” The posture of Moses and the servant is telling of their heart for God. Certainly, they would have thoughts and advice on the needs, but they bow in humility and surrender to seek God’s purpose and plan.

Asking others to pray for us is another posture of prayer. The vulnerability it requires may feel awkward, and it might be difficult to share our needs with others. However, it is very encouraging when you know someone else is praying specifically for you. We have an amazing online Prayer Wall at NorthStar Church, and our team would be honored to pray with you.

Here is how the process works:

  • Leave your request on our Prayer Wall at www.northstarchurch.org/prayer.
  • The team will be praying over the requests daily.
  • You will get an email every time someone prays for your request.
  • You can also pray for other requests on the page and send those folks an email too.

As we wrap up this week seeking God’s guidance, may we pray first, believe His promises, and trust His providence to lead us in the way that glorifies Him.

 

Bridget Turner serves as the Director of Women’s Groups at NorthStar Church. She and her husband, Steve, live in Powder Springs and have two young adult children, Hannah and Joshua. She enjoys watching football, traveling and reading.

 

Digging Deeper: Trusting God’s Providence

Avatar photo Bridget Turner on July 25, 2024

 

15 Before he had finished praying, he saw a young woman named Rebekah coming out with her water jug on her shoulder. She was the daughter of Bethuel, who was the son of Abraham’s brother Nahor and his wife, Milcah. 16 Rebekah was very beautiful and old enough to be married, but she was still a virgin. She went down to the spring, filled her jug, and came up again. 17 Running over to her, the servant said, “Please give me a little drink of water from your jug.”

18 “Yes, my lord,” she answered, “have a drink.” And she quickly lowered her jug from her shoulder and gave him a drink. 19 When she had given him a drink, she said, “I’ll draw water for your camels, too, until they have had enough to drink.” 20 So she quickly emptied her jug into the watering trough and ran back to the well to draw water for all his camels.

Genesis 24:15-20 (NLT)

 

TRUSTING GOD’S PROVIDENCE

 

Notable pastor Charles H. Spurgeon said, “God’s providence is always on time! You and I make appointments and miss them by half an hour. But God has never missed an appointment yet. God is never early, though we often wish he were. But he is never late, no, not by one tick of the clock.” God’s providence is His divine hand in our lives. He lovingly guides and transacts all that happens to accomplish His purposes and fulfill His kingdom, and we see it throughout this story of Isaac and Rebekah.

 

Genesis 24:15 tells us that before the servant finished praying, Rebekah was coming to the well. The servant prayed that the daughters (plural) of the men would be coming to draw water, but God sends Rebekah alone. Then just as the servant prays, she gives him a drink of water and offers to water his camels—his ten camels! That may seem like an insignificant detail, but a search on Google says, “A camel can drink up to 30 gallons of water in less than 15 minutes.” That is a lot of extra work—quite the interruption to what would have been a routine chore for Rebekah. The servant silently watches, not interfering or trying to manipulate the situation, but waits patiently for God’s confirmation.

 

We also see this contemplative patience in Isaac at the end of our passage. The impact of his mother’s death was great and held more weight than just his personal grief. No doubt he understood the covenant God made with his father, Abraham—that his offspring would number the stars. Yet he is not married, and his father is very old. Instead of pursuing his own plan to keep the covenant, we find Isaac walking and meditating in the fields when he sees the servant returning. Once the servant tells him the story and who Rebekah is, he immediately takes her as his wife. Verse 68 wraps up the passage, saying, “Isaac loved her, and he was comforted after his mother’s death.”

 

Notably, no one involved in this story is forced to take part in it. Abraham asks the servant to go find a wife for Isaac. The servant asks Rebekah for a drink. Laban invites the servant to their home, and they ask Rebekah if she will go with him. When we trust in the providence of God and His work on our behalf, we can respond to His guidance with certainty. What can you do today to deepen your trust in who God is and confidently obey His direction?

 

Bridget Turner serves as the Director of Women’s Groups at NorthStar Church. She and her husband, Steve, live in Powder Springs and have two young adult children, Hannah and Joshua. She enjoys watching football, traveling and reading.

 

Digging Deeper: The Good Shepherd

Avatar photo Bridget Turner on July 24, 2024

 

14 “I am the good shepherd; I know my own sheep, and they know me, 15 just as my Father knows me and I know the Father. So I sacrifice my life for the sheep.

John 10:14-15 (NLT)

 

THE GOOD SHEPHERD

 

My husband and I were spending some time on the lake recently and saw a momma duck and six little ducklings swimming along the shore in a straight line. Suddenly, the momma began to quack loudly and slowed down. In just a few seconds, we saw two more little ducklings (seven and eight) paddling to the back of the line. Abruptly, the momma stopped moving and began to quack louder again. The eight ducklings all slammed into a pile, and from across the cove, we saw another little duckling, number nine! It was trying so hard to move quickly that its little wings were carrying it over the water one second, and then it was tumbling the next, all while heading straight to its momma. Number nine finally made it, and the momma immediately turned around and began swimming back along the shore as each duckling lined up behind her. It was such a fascinating scene to watch.

Ironically, there are some interesting facts about ducks that remind me of our relationship with God. First, ducklings automatically imprint an image of their momma and siblings on their brains after being hatched. That is how they know who to follow. Secondly, they follow in a line behind the mother on land so that she can remove any obstacles in their path, and on water, she creates a wave that passes through the line, allowing the ducklings to move easily and with little effort. That is why the momma kept calling out to the ducklings to get in line. It is also why it seemed so very hard for the last one to get to her.

In John 10, Jesus says, “I am the good shepherd; I know my own sheep, and they know me, just as my Father knows me and I know the Father. So, I sacrifice my life for the sheep” (vs. 14-15). He goes on to say, “My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me” (vs. 27). Our Good Shepherd longs to lead us. I pray that, like the ducklings, we will imprint Him on our hearts and minds, knowing that as we do, we can trust Him completely and our paths will be made clearer.

 

Bridget Turner serves as the Director of Women’s Groups at NorthStar Church. She and her husband, Steve, live in Powder Springs and have two young adult children, Hannah and Joshua. She enjoys watching football, traveling and reading.

 

Digging Deeper: It’s Not About Us

Avatar photo Bridget Turner on July 23, 2024


36 “When Sarah, my master’s wife, was very old, she gave birth to my master’s son, and my master has given him everything he owns. 37 And my master made me take an oath. He said, ‘Do not allow my son to marry one of these local Canaanite women. 38 Go instead to my father’s house, to my relatives, and find a wife there for my son.’

 

42 “So today when I came to the spring, I prayed this prayer: ‘O Lord, God of my master, Abraham, please give me success on this mission. 43 See, I am standing here beside this spring. This is my request. When a young woman comes to draw water, I will say to her, “Please give me a little drink of water from your jug.” 44 If she says, “Yes, have a drink, and I will draw water for your camels, too,” let her be the one you have selected to be the wife of my master’s son.’

45 “Before I had finished praying in my heart, I saw Rebekah coming out with her water jug on her shoulder. She went down to the spring and drew water. So I said to her, ‘Please give me a drink.’ 46 She quickly lowered her jug from her shoulder and said, ‘Yes, have a drink, and I will water your camels, too!’ So I drank, and then she watered the camels.

Genesis 24:38-38; 42-46 (NLT)

 

IT’S NOT ABOUT US

 

Do you remember playing the telephone game as a child? The one where everyone sits in a circle and a message is whispered from person to person until the last person gets it and says it out loud? It was always funny to hear how much the original message had changed. Genesis 24 has quite a bit of repetition as the oath, the prayers, and the responses are shared from person to person. However, the message remains consistent throughout the story.

In verses 37 and 38, the servant repeats the oath he swore with Abraham to Rebekah’s brother, Laban. He also shares the prayer he prayed, asking God to bring a girl to the well who would give him a drink of water and offer to water his camels too (verses 42-46). The servant wraps up the story by asking Laban if they will indeed show kindness and faithfulness to his master. If not, he will go elsewhere. Worth noting is that Laban addresses the servant as “you who are blessed by the Lord” (v. 31). His faith is obvious to Rebekah’s family right away.

The servant has such an unselfish attitude throughout this story. We learned yesterday that he managed all that Abraham owned. That is a huge responsibility. When he takes the oath, there is no thought expressed about who will take care of everything while he is away. His only question is about what to do for Isaac if the woman won’t come with him. Secondly, he prays on the way to the well, asking God to bless his master, just as he asked Laban to do. Third, when he meets Rebekah, he bows down and worships, thanking God for blessing his master. His focus and concern are always with others.

At NorthStar, one of our core values is “It’s not about us.” Abraham’s servant portrays this beautifully throughout the story. As we reflect on his role today, let us ask God for guidance on where we can change our thoughts and attitudes to be less about us and more about Him and others.

Bridget Turner serves as the Director of Women’s Groups at NorthStar Church. She and her husband, Steve, live in Powder Springs and have two young adult children, Hannah and Joshua. She enjoys watching football, traveling and reading.

 

Digging Deeper: Next Level Faith

Avatar photo Bridget Turner on July 22, 2024

1 Abraham was now a very old man, and the Lord had blessed him in every way. 2 One day Abraham said to his oldest servant, the man in charge of his household, “Take an oath by putting your hand under my thigh. 3 Swear by the Lord, the God of heaven and earth, that you will not allow my son to marry one of these local Canaanite women. 4 Go instead to my homeland, to my relatives, and find a wife there for my son Isaac.”

Genesis 24:1-4 (NLT)

 

NEXT LEVEL FAITH

 

Genesis 24 has the makings of a great movie: honor, respect, intrigue, romance, love, mystery, and drama. Take a few minutes to read it and see for yourself. Certainly, there are historical and culturally appropriate practices in the passage that would most likely not occur today. However, do not let that keep you from seeing how God honors the faith and obedience of each person involved.

The story opens with Abraham asking his servant to place his hand under Abraham’s thigh and swear an oath. The servant is to swear by the Lord, God of heaven and earth, that he will go to Abraham’s family and find a wife for Isaac and not choose one from the Canaanites. The request may seem a bit odd, but it has similarities to how one would take an oath today. Last year, I watched as my daughter took the oath of office to be an attorney. She stood before a judge, raised her right hand, and repeated the oath of office. It begins with these words, “I solemnly swear to …,” and ends with “So help me God.” Law school was completed, the bar exam passed, but to officially operate as an attorney, she had to take the oath of office, swearing to uphold the Constitution of the United States and the Constitution of the State of Georgia.

The servant had passed “initial tests” as well. Scripture describes him as “the elder of his household who managed all [Abraham] owned.” Abraham knew he was a trusted, loyal servant, but finding Isaac a wife required a next-level commitment. Isaac’s offspring will represent the continuation of God’s covenant with Abraham to be the father of many nations (Genesis 12). The Women’s Evangelical Commentary describes it as “maintaining the spiritual formation of the family.” Abraham trusted God to keep His covenant and knew Isaac’s wife would need to share that same faith.

How is your faith being challenged to a new level? Are you opening your Bible daily to learn more about who God is? Are you engaged with a small group that keeps you accountable? Do you regularly attend church? Are you praying with and for your family? My prayer this week is that those questions will help you find new ways to level up your faith and maintain the spiritual formation of your family.

Bridget Turner serves as the Director of Women’s Groups at NorthStar Church. She and her husband, Steve, live in Powder Springs and have two young adult children, Hannah and Joshua. She enjoys watching football, traveling and reading.

 

Digging Deeper: He Is Near

Avatar photo Bridget Turner on May 10, 2024

But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things!

Galatians 5:22-23 (NLT)

 

HE IS NEAR

 

Thinking about gentleness this week reminded me of a book I received in college as part of a scholarship award. It’s called, The Christian’s Secret of a Happy Life by Hannah Whitall Smith. In it she says, “The nearer we are to Christ, the more shall we be enabled to exemplify the meekness and gentleness of our Lord, and the more tender will be our consideration for those who are our natural guardians and counselors.”

Christ’s proximity to us never changes. He is always near. How close we will stay to Christ is up to us. The question is what does that look like, and how do we do it?

This nearness of God is found in accepting Him as our Savior. We do that by believing that Christ died for us, covering our sins, once and for all. Then we grow in our faith by cultivating the relationship with God daily. There is no quick fix or easy button. It will require the investment of time and attention. The most beneficial ways to staying near to Christ are by reading His Word, studying, and memorizing scriptures, being in church and surrounding ourselves with other Christians.

When my children were young, I struggled with post-partum depression and hormonal imbalances for a few years. Some days were worse than others, but I would get them ready for bed and say, “Mommy and Daddy love you, but follow hard after the one who loves you the most – Jesus!” Then I would add, “Show me how much Jesus loves you.” They would stretch their little arms out as far as they could. It was such a sweet way to teach them that Jesus was the most important person in their lives. I may not have been very tender or gentle that day, but they knew Jesus was near and that He loved them. He was enough.

Tim Keller, a more contemporary author to Smith, said it like this. “The product of a true, growing, gospel-centered nature is often gentleness.”  

Gentleness is not natural for any of us. Indeed, it is the reflection of God, the one who died for us and now lives in us. If clothing yourself in gentleness seems difficult, please remember to lean into the Holy Spirit. My prayer is that you know God is near and that He not only wants to be gentle with you but through you as well. Press into Him and His Word and He will do it.

 

Bridget Turner serves as the Director of Women’s Groups at NorthStar Church. She and her husband, Steve, live in Powder Springs and have two young adult children, Hannah and Joshua. She enjoys watching football, traveling and reading.

 

Digging Deeper: A Love Like No Other

Avatar photo Bridget Turner on May 9, 2024

But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things!

Galatians 5:22-23 (NLT)

 

A LOVE LIKE NO OTHER

 

Several years ago, I had to drive around interstate 285 to get to and from work. At one point there was a billboard that I passed daily. It was solid black and had white letters that said, “Don’t make me come down there. – God.” Unfortunately, it is not far off from how I think about God sometimes – that He is just waiting to pounce when I mess up.

In contrast, Dane Ortlund in Gentle and Lowly describes Jesus as “Meek. Humble. Gentle. Jesus is not trigger-happy. Not harsh, reactionary, easily exasperated. He is the most understanding person in the universe. The posture most natural to him is not a pointed finger but open arms.” Jesus’ love for us far surpasses anything we will understand this side of heaven. Genuine love has a tenderness, gentleness to it that is like no other.

We see a glimpse of what this looks like when Jesus appears to the disciples after His resurrection. In John 20 we read, “Jesus came and stood among them and said, “Peace be with you!” After he said this, he showed them his hands and side. The disciples were overjoyed when they saw the Lord.” Thomas was not with them at this point and when the disciples told him about seeing the Lord, he said, “Unless I see the nail marks in his hands and put my finger where the nails were, and put my hand into his side, I will not believe.”

A week later Jesus appears with the disciples again and this time Thomas is present. Jesus says to him specifically, “Put your finger here; see my hands. Reach out your hand and put it into my side. Stop doubting and believe.” This moment with Thomas is so powerful and loving. Jesus knows exactly what Thomas has said and He gently allows him to not only see His scars, but to touch them.

The disciples were Jesus’ closest confidants during His earthly ministry. They had been firsthand witnesses to His teachings and miracles. They should have known who He was, recognized His voice, and yet they doubted it was Him. Jesus did not respond harshly, question them, or point His finger. He fully understood what they needed to believe and gave it to them.

May we all recognize today how incredibly compassionate God is. And just like He was with Thomas, He knows us intimately and gently loves us where we are.

Bridget Turner serves as the Director of Women’s Groups at NorthStar Church. She and her husband, Steve, live in Powder Springs and have two young adult children, Hannah and Joshua. She enjoys watching football, traveling and reading.

 

Digging Deeper: Words Matter

Avatar photo Bridget Turner on May 8, 2024

But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things!

Galatians 5:22-23 (NLT)

 

WORDS MATTER

 

Do you remember this children’s rhyme? “Sticks and stones will break my bones, but words will never hurt me.”  A quick Google search dates its origin back to the 1800’s. That is a long time for something not true to still be so easy to roll off the tongue! Hopefully, we all agree that words can indeed hurt us. Even if we are not personally experiencing it, we see it all around us every day.

Anger, strife, anxiety, apathy, aggression, and even physical attacks are the common themes crossing our news feeds today. You can find verbal wars on social media, often between people who do not even know each other. It is an interesting time to be alive for sure. Gentleness is rarely the way we see people engaging and interacting these days.

Recently, while I was waiting in line to check out at a local store, a baby started to cry loudly. The mom was desperately trying to console the child and get them to quiet down, but nothing was working. Then out of nowhere an older man across the store yells, “Good thing we are not on an airplane!”  There was an audible gasp from those of us close by. It was such a cringeworthy moment that no one moved. My heart ached for this young mom who was already stressed and now embarrassed by the outburst of a stranger. His words, most assuredly, hurt her.

Proverbs 15:1 & 4 (NLT) says,

A gentle answer deflects anger, but harsh words make tempers flare. Gentle words are a tree of life; a deceitful tongue crushes the spirit.


One of the sermons points this week was “Will my response benefit or hurt the other person?” Proverbs teaches us that gentle responses deflect anger and are a tree of life. On the other hand, it tells us that harsh words make tempers flare, and a deceitful tongue crushes the spirit. We often talk about arguments or difficult discussions this way at NorthStar: you can enter a heated discussion like gasoline and add to the flames, or you can be like water and douse them. It is a choice.

Today, let us remember that words do matter and ask God to help us bring life, confidence, and encouragement to those He allows us to engage with.

 

Bridget Turner serves as the Director of Women’s Groups at NorthStar Church. She and her husband, Steve, live in Powder Springs and have two young adult children, Hannah and Joshua. She enjoys watching football, traveling and reading.

 

Digging Deeper: Dressed for Success

Avatar photo Bridget Turner on May 7, 2024

But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things!

Galatians 5:22-23 (NLT)

 

DRESSED FOR SUCCESS

 

Have you ever taken a personality test, like the DISC profile, Strengthsfinder or the Enneagram? Relatively speaking, they all come to the same descriptions for my personality – competitive, leader, strategic, assertive, decisive, and fear of being vulnerable are the most frequent results. The word gentle does not show up! Regardless of what these profiles express about me (or you), it is not an excuse to not be gentle. In Colossians 3:12 it says to “…clothe yourselves” with gentleness. The Message version says “…dress in the wardrobe God picked out for you.”  This idea of clothing is about an outward expression no matter our temperaments or natural feelings on a matter. What it does not mean is to be passive or apathetic; we can be firm but gracious. The greatest example we have of this is Jesus.  

In John 8 we find Jesus seated and teaching in the Temple. The scribes and Pharisees bring a woman to the center of the crowd. She was an adulterer, and they ask Jesus what He would say, reminding Him that the law requires she be stoned. They are trying to trap Him and have more evidence that He is not who He says He is. Jesus stoops down and starts writing in the sand with His finger as the scribes and Pharisees keep questioning Him. Then Jesus stands up and says to them, “The one without sin among you should be the first to throw a stone at her.” He stoops back down again and continues writing in the sand. Scripture says one by one the men all leave, oldest to youngest, and just the woman and Jesus remain. Jesus stands up again and says, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?”  “No one, Lord,” she answered. “Neither do I condemn you,” said Jesus. “Go, and from now on do not sin anymore.”

Note the posture of Jesus throughout this story. When the scribes and Pharisees address Him regarding the law, He does not respond but stoops down to write in the sand. He stands up, addresses them and then stoops back down, while they decide to leave. When He addresses the woman, he stands up again. Every time Jesus speaks it is with all authority, firm and direct. Then He quietly allows them to respond. It is a gentle, loving way giving them the dignity to acknowledge their sin – the scribes, the Pharisees, and the adulterous woman.

If you find yourself in tough situations today, I pray that you ask God to give you the boldness to be firm and the power to be gentle like Jesus.

Bridget Turner serves as the Director of Women’s Groups at NorthStar Church. She and her husband, Steve, live in Powder Springs and have two young adult children, Hannah and Joshua. She enjoys watching football, traveling and reading.

 

Digging Deeper: Fruit of the Spirit

Avatar photo Bridget Turner on May 6, 2024

But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things!

Galatians 5:22-23 (NLT)

 

FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT

 

Growing up, my siblings, cousins and I were up early during the summer months helping our grandparents in the garden. On most days, the sun had barely risen, and this girl enjoyed her sleep! My grandfather was the one to wake us up, and I was the most rebellious. He often got sarcasm and anger instead of respect from me. The work was tiring and dirty and, frankly, none of us wanted to spend our summers this way. As you can imagine we had little tolerance for each other and there were lots of arguments and fighting among us. My grandmother would gently remind us that if we did not keep working, we would be in the fields later and the day would just get hotter. Not to mention there would be no fruit and vegetables to eat. Eventually we would all settle down and get to work.

These days were far from gentle, but they taught me great lessons. As an adult I realize that the hard workdays were preparing the soil to produce a harvest. Food would not just appear on the dinner table, if we did not work the fields and plant the seeds.

We can often think of the Fruit of the Spirit, which includes gentleness, in a comparable manner to gardening.  We work, prepare the soil, plant seeds, and then harvest it when it is ripe. Then we store everything up and pull it out when we want or need it. The problem with this thinking is that it all depends on us.

Galatians 5 teaches us that the Holy Spirit is the one who produces the fruit within us. As we live by the Spirit and crucify the sinful desires of our flesh, the Holy Spirit is creating the fruit within us. The possibility to respond with gentleness is always readily available. It is the very character of God residing within us and empowering us to respond as He would. The choice is ours to yield our lives to it and reflect the nature of Christ to the world.

Today I pray that you know gentleness dwells within you and that it would be the first response others experience as they interact with you.

 

Bridget Turner serves as the Director of Women’s Groups at NorthStar Church. She and her husband, Steve, live in Powder Springs and have two young adult children, Hannah and Joshua. She enjoys watching football, traveling and reading.